Tuesday, June 03, 2008

19 Years

19 years ago I married the love of my life. We've been together much longer than that, though, since I was a sophomore in high school 26 years ago.

She was a senior cheerleader at another school, I was a skinny punk who drove a 10 year old station wagon and worked as a fry cook at Grandy's, but I had big dreams. I met her the very first weekend I had a license to drive, at the age of fifteen.

We met at a McDonald's, believe it or not. I eventually followed her to college, and she hasn't been able to get rid of me ever since the first night we met.

Happy anniversary, sweetie.

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Blogger rlbates said...

Happy Anniversary!!

6/03/2008 09:35:00 PM  
Blogger make mine trauma said...

Congratulations! It is so nice to know that true love really does exist somewhere. It gives the rest of us (me) hope!

6/03/2008 10:03:00 PM  
Anonymous Dr. Val said...

What a sweet toast! Good for you... cynicism hasn't won! (I read this to my husband and he asked if I was going to write something similar to him on my blog for our 3rd year anniversary on Friday - heh).

6/03/2008 10:23:00 PM  
Blogger EE said...

Awww! Congratulations on the "bronze" anniversary!

6/03/2008 10:32:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

whitecap nurse says: Hey congratulations! I like to see long marriages these days. Coincidentally, my sweetie & I celebrate our 19th tomorrow (June 4th) - which will also be my parents 48th! (and, sadly, the 19th annvy. of Tiananmen Square as well)

6/03/2008 10:59:00 PM  
Blogger Unordinaryday said...

Congratulations and Happy Anniversary!

6/04/2008 01:12:00 AM  
Blogger SeaSpray said...

How sweet Scalpel. Sounds like you're both blessed to have each other. :)

Darn...I wish I could see the photo-my computer is blocking it.

It sounds like you both met the love of your life. So many marriages break up today. Any pearls of wisdom/insights you care to share on how to overcome obstacles that may arise and stay intact? What do you think you did right?

Hotcakes, catfish and okra...sounds southern to me. :)

Happy Anniversary! :)

6/04/2008 01:18:00 AM  
Blogger Elaine said...

Happy Anniversary.

It is really something that you both stuck together through finishing school and studying to become a doctor, not to mention the long hours in the early years after qualification.

And then 17 years of marriage too.

Happy Anniversary!

6/04/2008 03:02:00 AM  
Blogger DementedM said...

Congratulations! Enjoy your anniversary!

M

6/04/2008 07:51:00 AM  
Blogger Dr. A said...

Nice.

6/04/2008 08:11:00 AM  
Blogger Teresa said...

Congratulations, Dr. & Mrs. Scalpel. And I wish you many, many happy returns of the day.

6/04/2008 08:42:00 AM  
Blogger Brian and Jennifer said...

Scalpel,

Congrats on your anniv.

My Dr. Mrs. and I had our 2nd anniv. yesterday (6/3), and we've made it through a helluva lot of rough times (our wedding was the disaster to end all disasters, and no matter what anyone says, nothing will ever be as bad as ours!).

Hopefully we can be married as long as you!

6/04/2008 09:21:00 AM  
Blogger Joints said...

Congratulations! I love you both. For the record, you were never a punk.

6/04/2008 09:47:00 AM  
Blogger scalpel said...

Any advice I could give would sound trite, but I think the most important thing is to choose well.

If you truly love each other, then rough times are just like a spell of bad weather that eventually will pass. A marriage is like a home - comforting but sometimes aggravating, requiring frequent maintenance else the rough times destroy it, but ultimately something beautiful if nurtured and a disaster if neglected. And of course the most important part is the foundation. Choose well.

6/04/2008 02:57:00 PM  
Blogger EE said...

Thanks for that advice Scalpel. I showed my husband...he looked deep into my eyes and said "baby, I'm glad I chose well" and then gave me a kiss that took my breath away.

*tears up*

6/04/2008 06:04:00 PM  
Blogger shrtstormtrooper said...

Congratulations! It's good to know that people can still make it work, if they're willing to try.

6/04/2008 08:18:00 PM  
Blogger SeaSpray said...

Well said Scalpel and I agree with you. Foundation is key.

I would also add as someone who has come through rough times in a marriage...hold on...you CAN come through to the other side. We will be married 33 years in October. :)

Thanks for sharing that Scalpel and congratulations again to both of you. :)

6/04/2008 08:23:00 PM  
Blogger Allen said...

Wunderbar!

6/04/2008 10:36:00 PM  
Blogger Nurse K said...

You're giving me flashbacks to my greasy-restaurant waitress days. I'm still friends with some of the people I worked with there when I was 15-18 years old. Good times, except for always having to go on "mouse patrol" in the basement.

The difference is that no one there really had big dreams other than to smoke the most bowls in a single day or see how much you could drink and still make it on time to work in the morning.

6/05/2008 09:27:00 AM  
Anonymous Ten out of Ten said...

Happy anniversary! Does this post count as the gift?

6/05/2008 11:07:00 AM  
Blogger knitalot3 said...

Happy Anniversary!

6/05/2008 01:19:00 PM  
Blogger scalpel said...

If you have true love, you don't need fancy gifts. Hehehe.

6/05/2008 02:30:00 PM  
Blogger Amy said...

Happy Anniversery Dr.and Mrs.Scalpel! My 10th is coming up at the end of the month. I can't remember what it was like to not be married. Bet you can't either.

6/06/2008 12:46:00 AM  
Blogger 911DOC said...

many happy returns my friend. turns out we are nearly the same age. let me roll back the memory machine... when you and i were in high school 'highway to hell' and 'back in black' came out, and it was the only thing the football team played before games. close?

6/06/2008 02:31:00 PM  
Blogger scalpel said...

Yup, and MTV was born.

6/06/2008 04:05:00 PM  

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